Neurodiverse people are gaslighted by some neurotypical people and made to look like they are more sensitive, or angrier than they really are.
Sometimes people who are neurotypical will roll their eyes at something the person with an alternative personality will say or do, or for example the person who is neurotypical will apologize and then roll their eyes. Or they will say something underneath their breath, or as they are walking away. This will cause the person with an alternative personality to become upset and sadly the "non" will wonder why and act as though they did nothing wrong. However, it is because of the indirect comments and actions that the person with the alternative personality became upset. This is gaslighting because it is the person who is neurotypical causing the person with an alternative personality to question their own sanity and it is also placing blame on to them and their alternative personality. Instead of taking responsibility for their actions, the person who is neurotypical will place blame on the person with the alternative personality going into an angered or depressed mental state. It is the person with an alternative personality's fault for getting upset over "nothing" even though it's because they feel hurt because the the person who is neurotypical said one thing but their actions said another. It is also harmful because neurodiverse people are then blamed for being too sensitive, or having anger issues, or even told it didn't happen and they are being paranoid.