According to Tim Elmore, there are seven emotions that are the cause of having a sense of entitlement which are Anger,Impatience, cynicism, resentme.nt, criticism, ingratitude, and disappointment.As stated on the website iresearchnet, sometimes people become defensive if they do not receive what they desire
In relationships, we feel we are entitled to a romantic getaway, cuddles and happiness like you see in Disney movies. In reality, relationships have drama, people make mistakes and people show love in other ways other than physical touch. We feel we are entitled to be loved and shown love in the way we want to be shown, not thinking about our partner (or friend). People feel they deserve a happy, thin, partner and if their partner gains weight or is depressed they want to push weight loss or happy pills off onto them.
Have gratitude for things you have, not want. If your partner or friends bring you breakfast or take you out to eat, it may not be cuddles and flowers but notice their actions showing you they love you.
Have gratitude for things you have, not want. If your partner or friends bring you breakfast or take you out to eat, it may not be cuddles and flowers but notice their actions showing you they love you.
According to Aletheia Luna, demands that may not be able to be satisfied by the person being asked to do them is a sign of a sense of entitlement. A person may prefer to be alone while another person may enjoy tons of attention, requiring what you want instead of compromising is a form of a sense of entitlement because you are not meeting in the middle of what the other person wants. When we feel we are entitled to someone's feelings, or entitled to make them feel happy, entitled to a perfect relationship, when the people we love fall short, we resent them, we feel disappointed with them. We feel we are entitled to know what another person is thinking or feeling as seen with relationship guide books. If your partner doesn't want to open up, that is their right, they do not need to discuss their feelings with anyone if they do not want to. Feelings of sadness or happiness are their own and if they wish to share them they will. It may be frustrating, especially in a romantic relationship, but please remember everyone handles things in their own way. You are not entitled to force the way you share your feelings with someone else. You are not entitled to their private thoughts, or feelings or anything else just because you are dating them. They still have their own private thoughts and feelings they deserve to have to their self.
When people think their opinion matters about the size of another person's genitalia, that is entitlement. They think we should all get surgery to be what they desire. Breasts are too big or too small for "their" liking, or a penis may be too small for their liking. No one needs to have a certain sized genitalia because someone else says so. They are entitled because they think the entire opposite sex has to please them and is there for them and they have the right to say what is and isn't "appropriate" for genitalia to look like. All genitalia is good, small or big and for someone to tell others what they like and for people to succumb to their standards is feeling they are entitled to another person's body and to comment on it is a feeling of entitlement over another person's body. They have the right to say what is and isn't good enough when they don't. No one has the say is what is good or isn't because all genitalia is good.
As stated by Beverly Smallwood feeling you deserve something and entitled to something are very much different things. We deserve love, and to feel safe, however, we are not entitled to demand how we receive that love, or how other people should look, or feel or behave.
People think they are entitled to tell ugly people what they should and shouldn't do to become better looking. They feel entitled because they think they are better looking and feel entitled to another person's face, body and looks. They also feel entitled to tell people they are already beautiful, even if that person isn't because they feel entitled to "save" others from their ugliness.
People think they are entitled to tell ugly people what they should and shouldn't do to become better looking. They feel entitled because they think they are better looking and feel entitled to another person's face, body and looks. They also feel entitled to tell people they are already beautiful, even if that person isn't because they feel entitled to "save" others from their ugliness.
People think they are entitled to give health advice to people who do not need it simply because they are of a different size than they are. They feel entitled to give weight loss tips, even weight gain tips for people who may be "too thin" or not "ripped enough" They give tips about how to get lean, or even bulk up to people, especially those just starting to work out. This is especially true when a fat person starts working out, people will tell them about weight loss tips because they feel they are entitled to do so. People feel they are entitled to comment on another person's health because they feel entitled to that person's body and what they should and shouldn't do to please them.
References:
Elmore, T. (2017, February 14). Seven Emotions That Follow a Sense of Entitlement. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from https://growingleaders.com/blog/seven-emotions-follow-sense-entitlement/
Smallwood, B. (n.d.). Sense of Entitlement by Beverly Smallwood: The Sideroad. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from http://www.sideroad.com/Personal_Development/sense-of-entitlement.html
Iresearchnet. (n.d.). Psychological Entitlement (SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY) - iResearchNet. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from http://psychology.iresearchnet.com/social-psychology/self/psychological-entitlement/
Luna, A. (2016, December 14). 16 Signs You Have a Sense of Entitlement Complex ⋆ LonerWolf. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from https://lonerwolf.com/sense-of-entitlement/
Elmore, T. (2017, February 14). Seven Emotions That Follow a Sense of Entitlement. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from https://growingleaders.com/blog/seven-emotions-follow-sense-entitlement/
Smallwood, B. (n.d.). Sense of Entitlement by Beverly Smallwood: The Sideroad. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from http://www.sideroad.com/Personal_Development/sense-of-entitlement.html
Iresearchnet. (n.d.). Psychological Entitlement (SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY) - iResearchNet. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from http://psychology.iresearchnet.com/social-psychology/self/psychological-entitlement/
Luna, A. (2016, December 14). 16 Signs You Have a Sense of Entitlement Complex ⋆ LonerWolf. Retrieved April 23, 2017, from https://lonerwolf.com/sense-of-entitlement/