"You are loved we love you and want the best for you. We just want you to be at your best, we can help you achieve anything because we care about you so much."
Love Bombing is when a cult will try to make you want to be included in their cult by making you feel wanted like never before. They want to win you by making you confident and then they can claim they made you confident so you should stick with them.
Bariatric, cosmetic, and psychiatry industry, along with religion love bomb people by telling them how beautiful they are and then adding a "but.... " They suck you in and then when you are in awe of them they add the "But we can help you become thinner, prettier, , happier, have a better genitalia, and a better person." Bariatric, costmetic, psychiatric industries and religion use love bombing to cover their destructive methods up with love and accepting you for you when in reality they want to control you. They tell you they want to help you because they care and love you so much, and they know what is best for you so listen to them. Don't listen to your body cues,emotions or what you need, listen to them because they know what is best, because they love you.
According to Rational Wiki, Love Bombing is one of the main ways to recognize a cult, so if this is true, the many forms of psychiatry, bariatrics, cosmetic and religion would be classified as a cult.
The most signficant sign these industries produce cults is how peolpe who subscribe to their beliefs always feel a sense of "belonging," "trust," "at peace" you see this when people say they lose weight, become fake happy, or get plastic surgery, and "finally have a sense of purpose or belonging they didn't and couldn't find before." Love bombing through "encouragement," to be yourself from other people in the "cult" who "love and care about you" will cause you to want to continue losing weight, being fake happy, or get plastic surgery.
They reel you in by telling you how smart you are, what a wonderful person you are, what a good friend, parent,sibling, etc you are. Once they have you,they will then go on to tell you you could be better if... you lost weight, got plastic surgery to look better, or if you were happier. This is when we start to doubt our own bodies and minds and start to listen to them because they have trained us mentally to believe they are our friend and they are experts so they know what is the best thing for us. If they tell me I should lose weight, be happy, have a bigger penis / bigger boobs, and look better I should listen to them.
As stated by Youtuber Candle Surgeon when members of a cult are love bombing a potential member, they do not know they are love bombing and using a manipulation tactic. The members see is as genuinly being nice and kind to a new member of the group. That is why people are so drawn to cults because everyone is so nice, kind and supportive. They are brainwashed as well, just like people who desire to change themselves because psychiatric, bariatric, cosmetic industries and religion have been.
Love bombing will draw you in especially when life is getting you down, this is why people are drawn into the cult of bariatrics, psychiatric, cosmetic industry and religion when a relationship ends, they are bullied, embarrassed, lose a friend because of their actions,etc. As stated by Luna Flesher at Rational Reform, love is taken away if you leave the cult, or don't behave the way they want you to. This is evident in the bariatric field, psychiatric field, cosmetic field and religion.As written by Changing Minds, love is used to punish and reward in a cult, this is similar to taking away compliments for gaining weight in the bariatric field, being sad or angry in the psychiatric field and having an ugly day in the cosmetics field (and all of them in religion). This keeps a person on track because they do not want to lose that love, acceptance and kindness from those people.
As stated by Luna Flesher, you are not someone they deeply care about, you are a potential convert. They do not care about your health, or you looking your best, they only about recruiting you to their belief system and by telling you they care, they know they can get you to join. They care about you as long as you are in their cult, but the moment you step away from it, is the moment they have no use for you. Does the bariatric industry have any use for fat people after they have lost weight, besides keeping them trim and thin? Does the psychiatric industry have any use for happy people, or do they just focus on depressed people and want to "help" keep them on the road to a false happiness? Does the cosmetic industry have any use for "beautiful" people, or do they try to market to ugly people to gain customers?
References
Wikipedia Contributors. "Love bombing." Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia. Wikimedia Foundation, 13 Feb. 2018. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_bombing>
Rational Wiki. "Love bombing - RationalWiki." Rationalwiki.org. n.d. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Love_bombing>
X Family.org "Love bombing - XFamily - Children of God." Xfamily.org. 16 Oct. 2016. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <https://www.xfamily.org/index.php/Love_bombing>
Luna Rebecca Flesher. "Thought Reform: Love Bombing." Rationalrevelation.com. n.d. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <http://www.rationalrevelation.com/tr/lovebomb.html>
Changing Minds "The Love Bomb." Changingminds.org. n.d. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <http://changingminds.org/techniques/conversion/love_bomb.htm>
Thinker Of Thoughts. "Love Bombing - YouTube." Youtube.com. n.d. Web. 15 Feb. 2018. <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-_gPr-Lo30>
Ben Fama Jr. "The Problem with Cults, Religion, and Love Bombing | Thinking Freely - YouTube." Youtube.com. n.d. Web. 15 Feb. 2018. <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEveHMpbdN4>
CandleSurgeon. "Love Bombing As Practied By Jehovah's Witnesses & Other High Control Groups - YouTube." Youtube.com. n.d. Web. 15 Feb. 2018. <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1iihi1adiI>
Bariatric, cosmetic, and psychiatry industry, along with religion love bomb people by telling them how beautiful they are and then adding a "but.... " They suck you in and then when you are in awe of them they add the "But we can help you become thinner, prettier, , happier, have a better genitalia, and a better person." Bariatric, costmetic, psychiatric industries and religion use love bombing to cover their destructive methods up with love and accepting you for you when in reality they want to control you. They tell you they want to help you because they care and love you so much, and they know what is best for you so listen to them. Don't listen to your body cues,emotions or what you need, listen to them because they know what is best, because they love you.
According to Rational Wiki, Love Bombing is one of the main ways to recognize a cult, so if this is true, the many forms of psychiatry, bariatrics, cosmetic and religion would be classified as a cult.
The most signficant sign these industries produce cults is how peolpe who subscribe to their beliefs always feel a sense of "belonging," "trust," "at peace" you see this when people say they lose weight, become fake happy, or get plastic surgery, and "finally have a sense of purpose or belonging they didn't and couldn't find before." Love bombing through "encouragement," to be yourself from other people in the "cult" who "love and care about you" will cause you to want to continue losing weight, being fake happy, or get plastic surgery.
They reel you in by telling you how smart you are, what a wonderful person you are, what a good friend, parent,sibling, etc you are. Once they have you,they will then go on to tell you you could be better if... you lost weight, got plastic surgery to look better, or if you were happier. This is when we start to doubt our own bodies and minds and start to listen to them because they have trained us mentally to believe they are our friend and they are experts so they know what is the best thing for us. If they tell me I should lose weight, be happy, have a bigger penis / bigger boobs, and look better I should listen to them.
As stated by Youtuber Candle Surgeon when members of a cult are love bombing a potential member, they do not know they are love bombing and using a manipulation tactic. The members see is as genuinly being nice and kind to a new member of the group. That is why people are so drawn to cults because everyone is so nice, kind and supportive. They are brainwashed as well, just like people who desire to change themselves because psychiatric, bariatric, cosmetic industries and religion have been.
Love bombing will draw you in especially when life is getting you down, this is why people are drawn into the cult of bariatrics, psychiatric, cosmetic industry and religion when a relationship ends, they are bullied, embarrassed, lose a friend because of their actions,etc. As stated by Luna Flesher at Rational Reform, love is taken away if you leave the cult, or don't behave the way they want you to. This is evident in the bariatric field, psychiatric field, cosmetic field and religion.As written by Changing Minds, love is used to punish and reward in a cult, this is similar to taking away compliments for gaining weight in the bariatric field, being sad or angry in the psychiatric field and having an ugly day in the cosmetics field (and all of them in religion). This keeps a person on track because they do not want to lose that love, acceptance and kindness from those people.
As stated by Luna Flesher, you are not someone they deeply care about, you are a potential convert. They do not care about your health, or you looking your best, they only about recruiting you to their belief system and by telling you they care, they know they can get you to join. They care about you as long as you are in their cult, but the moment you step away from it, is the moment they have no use for you. Does the bariatric industry have any use for fat people after they have lost weight, besides keeping them trim and thin? Does the psychiatric industry have any use for happy people, or do they just focus on depressed people and want to "help" keep them on the road to a false happiness? Does the cosmetic industry have any use for "beautiful" people, or do they try to market to ugly people to gain customers?
References
Wikipedia Contributors. "Love bombing." Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia. Wikimedia Foundation, 13 Feb. 2018. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_bombing>
Rational Wiki. "Love bombing - RationalWiki." Rationalwiki.org. n.d. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Love_bombing>
X Family.org "Love bombing - XFamily - Children of God." Xfamily.org. 16 Oct. 2016. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <https://www.xfamily.org/index.php/Love_bombing>
Luna Rebecca Flesher. "Thought Reform: Love Bombing." Rationalrevelation.com. n.d. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <http://www.rationalrevelation.com/tr/lovebomb.html>
Changing Minds "The Love Bomb." Changingminds.org. n.d. Web. 14 Feb. 2018. <http://changingminds.org/techniques/conversion/love_bomb.htm>
Thinker Of Thoughts. "Love Bombing - YouTube." Youtube.com. n.d. Web. 15 Feb. 2018. <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-_gPr-Lo30>
Ben Fama Jr. "The Problem with Cults, Religion, and Love Bombing | Thinking Freely - YouTube." Youtube.com. n.d. Web. 15 Feb. 2018. <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEveHMpbdN4>
CandleSurgeon. "Love Bombing As Practied By Jehovah's Witnesses & Other High Control Groups - YouTube." Youtube.com. n.d. Web. 15 Feb. 2018. <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1iihi1adiI>