According to some people, we need to fit into society's mold of perfect, happy and "normal" Ozzie & Harriet style of life. People want to believe they are more "normal" and "sane" than other people and will never ever be quirky or strange and the self-proclaimed "normal" people are afraid of becoming like those who are maybe a little strange.
I used to, and still catch myself from time to time, feeling awful if I see someone is sad or in emotional pain. I want to help them feel better emotionally. That changed when I discovered an argument that changed my mindset about how I look at sadness and someone else who is upset or sad.
These ideas helped me realize that when I see someone who is upset, I want to fix them, but I soon realized that wanting to fix them is a need I am providing myself, not them. This song fits perfectly because people think people with BPD , HPD,etc. just sit in their room waiting for a perfectly sane person to come save them You have to compromise (put yourself in a person who has bpd, depression position) how would you feel if someone told you "here are the rules to how you must feel emotionally and by the way I'm not going to comfort you unless you do this." " my love for you has conditions" you wouldn't like it very much would you? Insane people have been understanding of a sane person and their moodiness for so long and now it's their turn to be there for us insane people when we need someone to comfort us and they blame our bpd, or hpd, or npd because they don't want to be there for us.
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